THE former flame of football star Patson Daka, Grace Chilufya says lowering her standards just to be in a relationship is not an option.
Chilufya revealed that she is highly selective when it comes to men and unwilling to accept the bare minimum.
She stated that her stance has left her mother convinced that marriage may not be on the cards for her anytime soon.
“My mum honestly believes I’ll never get married atleast not anytime soon. I think my level of pickiness with men worries her,” Chilufya shared, attributing the concern to how particular she is about choosing a partner.
But Chilufya through her TikTok account yesterday said her standards didn’t come from nowhere.
According to her, years of personal growth and self-work have shaped her outlook on relationships, making it impossible for her to settle just for the sake of societal approval.
“I have done so much work on myself guys, so much that I can’t settle for the bare minimum,”she said, adding that accepting less would feel like betraying her own progress.
She insisted that being picky is not about arrogance, but about self-respect and knowing exactly what she wants.
By Sharon Zulu
Kalemba January 20, 2026
