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By Oscar Chavula
Encore…. Look in the mirror first!
I rarely pick my children from school, in February 2012, I was supposed to pick Lumbani from school at 1:00 pm, because I was catching a flight the same afternoon I forgot to tell our driver to pick her up as my day got busy around mid morning.
By the time I was realising that I had forgotten to pick my daughter up, the plane had just taken off. I Frantically tried to switch my phone back on against aeroplane rules but there was no signal. For almost two hours I questioned my lapse in the plane. As soon as the plane landed I called Ezekiel to pick her up and called the school to apologise.
Experiences like these make me define my life and priorities really quick. But there is a few things such times do to me. Such opportunities thrust me into an honest or real analysis of who I am, purely because for me my children mean everything!
Problems & Possible Solutions.
1. I can’t multi task.
The reality is I can not multi task or do more than one thing at the same time.
I have learnt to say NO as my first response to anything until I have fully assessed my abilities and means to either help or achieve something for myself or other people. I refuse to play danganana games to look good or be acceptable to people or a system.
2. I have a lousy memory for everything else but numbers, dates and money.
My memory is tricky, I only remember what is convenient and not necessarily everything or what is important. So I do the following religiously
(I) I use the notebook on my phone daily and always have a to do list.
(II) I clear my table every day. Today’s work ends today. To allow slippage here makes catching up difficult.
(III) Say it now or never say it. I have learned to face problems head on and immediately without hesitation or procrastination.
The tragedy of many is to carry on without a care in the world and not see that their world is crumbling slowly as people applaud their insolence and bad or poor judgment. Many people refuse to sit themselves down to reorganize or re-orient themselves to what could be a new normal in their lives.
Try and be a solution to your own problems and see what happens. Try and confront yourself and see what you finally see in the mirror.
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